Avoid re-creating View children on edit

The older code attempted to be clever and sync component additions and
removals with what the message edit is doing. In some cases, this led
to the re-creation of those components causing lost attributes to be
dropped such as `_rendered_row` which would mess up handling of view
weights.

Instead of recreating the children list every time and keeping track
of additions and removals, this change just updates the old state with
the new state while ignoring any new or removed additions. This should
work fine in theory due to additions or removals already being present
before editing the View instance in the first place.

Closes #7231 #7511

discord/ui/view.py

@@ -441,25 +441,26 @@ class View:
         asyncio.create_task(self._scheduled_task(item, interaction), name=f'discord-ui-view-dispatch-{self.id}')
 
     def _refresh(self, components: List[Component]) -> None:
-        # This is pretty hacky at the moment
         # fmt: off
-        old_state: Dict[Tuple[int, str], Item[Any]] = {
-            (item.type.value, item.custom_id): item  # type: ignore
+        old_state: Dict[str, Item[Any]] = {
+            item.custom_id: item  # type: ignore
             for item in self._children
             if item.is_dispatchable()
         }
         # fmt: on
-        children: List[Item[Any]] = []
+
         for component in _walk_all_components(components):
+            custom_id = getattr(component, 'custom_id', None)
+            if custom_id is None:
+                continue
+
             try:
-                older = old_state[(component.type.value, component.custom_id)]  # type: ignore
-            except (KeyError, AttributeError):
-                children.append(_component_to_item(component))
+                older = old_state[custom_id]
+            except KeyError:
+                _log.debug('View interaction referenced an unknown item custom_id %s. Discarding', custom_id)
+                continue
             else:
                 older._refresh_component(component)
-                children.append(older)
-
-        self._children = children
 
     def stop(self) -> None:
         """Stops listening to interaction events from this view.